For decades girls have been gifted or have stolen their boyfriend's jackets and sweaters. There is something adorable about a pretty little thing donning her man's over-sized apparel. I've taken it to the next level, regularly shopping the men's clearance section as thoroughly as the women's. Several men's cardigans, shoes and even jeans have crept their way into my closet. In the shoot below I found occasion to show of my boy-jeans found on sale at Urban Outfitters, paired with my absolute favorite pair of shoes- men's wingtips discovered at Wasteland on Melrose. I regularly sport the pair, double cuffing the jeans and making sure to have some ultra-feminine accessories or a hair-bow included in the ensemble.
A few months ago I scored a coveted shoot with the LA-based art photographer rock-star Dalmiro Quiroga, who's photos I featured in my last entry. I'm not a model and I was excited that he wanted to work together, as I'm always looking for new artistic expression to relay some message or other.
I had the idea of addressing a really pertinent issue in California that hits rather close to home- marriage equality. I was beyond shocked back in 2008 when Proposition 8 passed, banning same-sex marriage in the state of California. There has been a long and tumultuous journey since then, which has been ultimately disappointing thus far. We will continue to fight- it seems completely backwards that our country, originally founded on the basis of separation of church and state, could be so filled with ignoramuses.
It's hard to imagine being told by the government that you aren't allowed to marry the person you love, and though I happen to be attracted to men, some of the people I hold closer to my heart than my rib-bones will be restricted by this idiotic notion.
I wanted to present a literal depiction of someone trying to force themselves into a mold in order to be accepted. You can't fit a round peg into a square hole, no matter how badly you want to.
I've only included a few photos from the shoot, entitled "Boys Don't Cry." The entire shoot can be viewed here:
http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=2074663&id=1257990074&l=bd077c0c95
What do these images mean to you?<3Eden